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This is a revised, shorter version of the original essay, The Self You Didn't Choose. This piece draws on Western psychology, African philosophy and Buddhist thought to ask a better question than "Who am I?" — and what to do with the answer.
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This is a revised, shorter version of the original essay, The Self You Didn't Choose. This piece draws on Western psychology, African philosophy and Buddhist thought to ask a better question than "Who am I?" — and what to do with the answer.
Read essayThe self-help industry tells you to find yourself. But what if a significant part of who you are was assigned, conditioned and reinforced long before you were old enough to push back on it? I think the question we ask shouldn't be, "Who are you?', It should be, "Who decided.?"
Read essayStuck at home with my leg up and two fans trying to cool my tackle, but I was doing it wrong.
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